Everyone has different likes and dislikes. This is true with different types of mattresses although somethings are true for everyone. Your mattress needs to support your body in a neutral position, one in which your spine has a nice curvature and your buttocks, heels, shoulders, and head are supported in proper alignment. If a mattress is too firm, it will push on these main pressure points and take you out of alignment. If a mattress is too soft, your pressure points won’t be properly supported. With the right mattress you should no pressure, almost like you are floating! To be safe a Medium Firm Mattress works best for most. Sweet Dreams Tonight!